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Obituary for Elenore Delli Paoli

Elenore  Delli Paoli
In Memory of Elenore Delli Paoli

Elenore Delli Paoli, 74, died peacefully surrounded by her family on Wednesday February 7th, 2018, at Riverview Medical Center, Red Bank, NJ. Elenore was born on December 29th, 1943, in Brooklyn, NY, and moved to Woodhaven Queens in 1955, where she met Robert Delli Paoli. Robert and Elenore married in 1965, moved to Middletown, NJ, in 1971 and became the proud mother of Christine and Michael. The Delli Paoli family moved to Holmdel, NJ in 1985.

Prior to raising children, Elenore served as a private secretary at Brown Brothers Harriman on Wall Street. She enjoyed New York City’s culture, including Broadway shows, sight-seeing and dining. She was an avid shopper, enjoyed keeping active including daily aerobics routines, and complimented each day with a good cup of coffee. Elenore excelled at being a wonderful mom, raising her children and providing for her family, including cooking fantastic meals and the most amazing Sunday sauce. Some of Elenore’s favorite trips included traveling through Europe, the Caribbean as well as the United States. She thoroughly enjoyed spending her summer months with family and friends in Bethany Beach, DE. Elenore loved the music of Rod Stewart, Barry Manilow, and Josh Groban and was always on the dance floor.

Elenore is predeceased by her parents, Giovanni and Frances Messina as well as her in-laws Louis and Angelina Delli Paoli. She leaves behind her husband of 52 wonderful years, Robert Delli Paoli, daughter Christine Delli Paoli and her wife Bobbi Roth, and son Michael Delli Paoli and his wife Valarie Delli Paoli. She is survived by her three grandchildren Santino, Amalia and Arlo Delli Paoli, as well as her sister, AnnMarie Graham, nephews Chris Graham and Paul Graham, and many other family and friends. Mom was a warm, caring, and beautiful woman, a “cool mom”, who we will miss dearly and see her in time.

Visitation for Elenore will be held at Evergreen Memorial Funeral Home in Middletown, NJ, on Sunday, February 11th from 2pm to 4pm and 7pm to 9pm. Mass will take place on Monday, February 12th, at 9:15am at the Church of Saint Catherine, in Holmdel NJ, followed by Entombment in the Holmdel Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in Elenore’s name. Copy and Paste link below to get to Donation page.
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